Navigating the Transition for New Graduates
Do you know someone who is graduating from college this Spring? It’s a monumental achievement in a young adult's life and something to be extremely proud of.
It’s a big deal
Graduating from college is probably the first life milestone that young adults really have control over. From choosing which school to attend, classes to take, degree to earn, it’s countless decisions and years of hard work. If it’s something you’ve accomplished, take a minute to appreciate it. It’s a reminder that with hard work and dedication, you’re able to successfully navigate challenges in life.
What's next?
The next step after graduation can look different for everyone. Maybe they have a job lined up or maybe they haven't even begun to look. Maybe taking some personal time to sort things out would be beneficial. Maybe they feel like they have absolutely no direction whatsoever.
I’ll be the first to affirm that any of these are valid.
Yes, societal pressures and expectations may run towards having a path all mapped out. But, the truth is that we define our own path. If we allow others to choose it, we may find ourselves feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied in our lives.
Navigating change
Even when a job is lined up and a plan mapped out, transitioning from being a student to an independent adult can be a challenge. The complications of a new living situation, new work routines, and an all-around different lifestyle can be overwhelming.
If nothing else, I encourage the establishment of structure in daily life. At first, it will take some adjusting and experimentation. But in my experience, I have found that most people find comfort and reassurance with a predictable schedule as they ease into a new period in their lives.
Second thoughts
Jumping into a full-time job immediately after graduating can be a daunting experience. There may be anxiety and uncertainty about whether or not it’s the right choice.
I think the key is understanding that this job isn’t a life sentence. It is the first step on a long and winding journey. Have an open mind, be willing to learn, and put forth your best effort.
Not yet ready
Some graduates may feel that they are unprepared for the job they were hired to do. This is not all uncommon. Jump in anyway. Most employers are aware that they are getting a recent graduate and will invest time, money, and education into a new employee’s future with the company.
Take advantage of any skills training or continuing education that is offered. Find a mentor and be open, teachable, and willing to learn. Even if it’s not the job you had hoped it’d be, bring a positive attitude and get the most out of the experience.
Not everyone has a job offer yet
It’s obvious that not everyone has a job lined up prior to graduation. My advice for young job-seekers is to treat looking for a job as if that is their current job. Take it seriously and schedule time for tasks like searching and networking. Personalize applications and tailor resumes to coincide with the interests of the employer.
Of course, there should always be a balance between personal and professional life. You can devote a manageable amount of time to the search process, but remember that you still need to find time for yourself. By implementing structure and practicing self-discipline, you’re putting yourself in a position to be successful.
No clue what comes next?
It is not uncommon for those last few months of school to have occupied all time and energy. Taking time to think about the next step may not have been in the game plan.
Or maybe you have been thinking about it, but nothing feels right.
If you know someone who is having a hard time figuring out what the next steps may look like, we can talk. We can work on figuring out what the next step - or first step - might be to get momentum going in a direction that feels right.